Brahmin and Buffalo

Many of my friends know a friend of mine 'Manja', one of my friend calls him 'philosopher' also. He was a teacher in a school and now he runs granite business. He is my all time friend, he is just like a duplicate copy of my heart. He is younger than me but seen and experienced everything in life. When ever we meet, we keep talking for whole night and we talk everything.

He is the best person when it comes to knowledge, it doesn't mean that he know everything but he know how to handle things. He is very good at communication. He is very interesting person and got simplest solution for greatest issues.

Last day we were discussing something and even I was in dilemma over that issue. When I asked him, he didn't spoke much but, he said, 'Mava (we call each other Mava, father -in-law!)

'Mava, did I narrated a story about 'Brahmin's buffalo' anytime?'

I said, 'no, you didn't'

he, 'then listen to this story, it may help you'

'Sure'

Once there was a Brahmin in a village, and he was much concerned about purity, hygiene, and cleanliness. He had a beautiful buffalo, which was giving lot of milk. Everything was good going until one day a villager ignited a gossip saying that, the Brahmin's buffalo eats shit! But, Brahmin didnt believed that in initial days, but the news went shredding like hot dogs in the village. One fine day Brahmin followed the buffalo and for god sake it ate shit!! So he thought of teaching a lesson to buffalo, and followed the buffalo with a stick in hand. When ever buffalo put its mouth near shit, the Brahmin hit it hard. after few days he observed, when ever he is behind the buffalo it didn't even smelled shit, but, the moment he is away, the buffalo again ate shit.

But, this time Brahmin tied the buffalo inside the cattle shed and fed it with green grass, vegetables, and left-out-food. He didn't let the buffalo go out for 2 months! Again days were fine.

After 3 months, Brahmin let the buffalo out of shed, thinking that it has got its lesson in 3 months and will not eat shit again. The next moment the buffalo was released, it ran like anything to outskirts of village searched for every piece of shit and started eating! though Brahmin was beating it like anything it never stopped eating!

Then, Manja said, 'Mava, there are people around us like the buffalo, and they cant stop eating shit. If you try to stop them, for the moment they act like not eating shit but next moment they do it again. One day they turn so shameless that they don't even care if you are hitting them from behind and they continue to eating shit. If you go on following it then you will be dumped in shit one day. But you cant stop them eating shit, if they have eaten it once then they don't mind repeating it'

If we are intelligent, leave the buffalo and let it continue eating shit. Meanwhile we can bring a cow and start using cow milk or never use milk. If we are so dependent on buffalo milk, then ignore the shit and continue using milk as if you are unaware of the buffalo eating shit.

I was so impressed :) and best lesson of that moment.

Dear Mr. Valentine's Facebook Profile

A true love between 2 individuals is the super most power and the ultimate joy of life time. Only they can feel it, who are in there. My deepest greetings to all of them on this day. Pardon me for having cold shoulder while I write abut it. I am just trying to wipe tears that may flow after few years because of wrong choice. take it in positive way. Because in love, you never know it was a failure, until you shed tears and you are tired to wiping them from your cheeks.



"We had a lovely life so far, and yesterday also we been together. And, today she/he broke up with me. After getting committed with new one.

-Vary Smith

The love which is so pure, dedicated, futuristic and honest for you may be just a game for other one. And the above testimonial quotes it. 'getting a new one after break up' and 'breaking up after getting a new one' decides the price for past love. 'having a new one along with you' decides the un-billed price!

I quoted this from a article which got recently published on one of my author friend's blog. I am not here to explain what is love? Nobody has to describe the love because as long as there is love there is everything, and nobody has to describe it. But, I thought of writing on the second phase of love. These days there are more break ups than the proposals. Its because we never think before falling in love. My advice is 'think before falling in love, and never think after that'

I would want you to answer a simplest question. So that you can avoid the huge debts in the near future.

What made you to fall in love? (First step of happy love)
List out top 5 reasons that made you to fall in love. If your reason is one among 'looks, lust, money, availability, replacement' then be ready to pay for it. It's gonna crack withing next blink.

How long it took to fall love? (Second step of safe love)
Love is not an open manhole in the sidewalk waiting for you to blindly fall into it. The facts is that the love never just happen. It takes days, weeks, and months of finding big and small ways to perpetuate the ecstasy of illicit attraction. Love is a choice - not an emotion. No love happens without a want. The faster it grows, the fastest it fails’ that’s the truth about love.

Fight/dispute and the wait time (Third step of just love)
Let there be fight, doubt, beat, let the tears flow. Pull the thread hard to test before you use to stitch with it. If the thread is weak it will cut off. There are only 2 states of love. 'it is' and 'its not' there is nothing in between. If it is, then nothing can beat it. if it is not then there is no way to help it. Dispute about anything except an entry of another person in love is always welcome and it can be patched out.

Let he/him go away. Let her/him take a walk and think about it. This is the wait time and time to fix the price of love. This is wait time, how long you can wait for your loved ones? This is time to decide what stage you are in? 'it is' or 'its not'? if 'it is' you both would be waiting for each other for years. if 'it's not' then there wont be your number in her/his most dialed numbers list by next day.

Dont try to stitch the broken egg. (Last step of love)
There is a thinnest layer between the 2 loving individuals. Made up of trust and honesty. It is so delicate that even a strong blow can tear it away. The feel of this layer is so awesome to enjoy the love. But, once it breaks just take a break up. A patch up doesn't stay for long time. honestly, think of giving a happy ending (though it never works) A happy break up is never reality because one loves too much and other loves too many :)

It is not the end, its another journey to find a proper one. At the end thank her/him for providing another opportunity to make the life beautiful with a heart that loves you.


On the other side...
I dont know the advantages of mobile and Facebook, but I know for sure these two have successfully redefined the meaning of love. Saala, if they were not there, at least girls and guys would have had some time to think and analyze why the break up happened. Falling in love for first is not so delighting than falling in love with an ex!

Thanks to Indian Electricity Board - there are living examples of people who got rebounded just because they dialed ex number while there was nothing to when there was no power supply. There is no condition for love, its eternal. We make it*


Wishing you a very Happy day of your own.
Let there be love around you always, for ever & ever

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My First Book 'Bade Nawab'

Wooo, finally this is out of press. This is been my long time dream. Though its late but I could get this book published after 3 years.

4 years ago, when I used to get inspired by stage plays. And one year after I wrote this playwright. It reads like a historical play. Inspired by the incidents occurred in 17s. The down of Mughals and dawn of British rule. This is just a try to look at the history though a modern view. The play is contemporary to all time political system and the geeks to attain power.

My next desire it to bring on to stage performance. May be end of this years. Here is a page from original script.



Hoping to get some readers.
-Cheers