Sunday, July 26, 2009

how much would you want me to earn to marry your daughter?'

Matrimonial Sites!

Partner a click away. Last night, some elder person called me saying that a relative of mine given him my number asking if I am free to marry his daughter. He was retired government employee from north karnataka now settled in Bangalore with his daughter, who works in an MNC. We exchanged hi, hellows and he asked me where do i work, i said its x company, his reply was 'oh!, how much do you earn?' I yelled myself 'f*** man' and asked back, 'how much would you want me to earn to marry your daughter?' (obviously the discussion ended next moment)

One more, after hi hellows, he asked me what is my qualification? I said, I am doing MBA, he 'oh, You doing MBA after your BE'? me, 'no, after BA'. His voice come so low says 'ok, I wil get back to you'

No parent (atleast 98%) asks, what are your interests? hobbies? what have you achieved in life so far? what you want do in life? instead company and salary. If the boy is earning 20,000 and girl is earning 55,000, the ristha cancel! and if girl is earning 10,000 boy is earning 1,25,000 wow! rishta pakka! I ask, why? does salary really build the love and affection?

How much, N R Narayanmurthy was paid before he built Infosys?

Dear parents, dont ever ask boys salary, and lend your daughter's hand. Look into his desires, the way he lives, the way he traveled so far. And remember a 'well settled' groom is not suitable for your daughter. If he is already well settled, then what the point? only an unsettled groom can build another infosys! Let your daughter, be an inspiration to someone to achieve something, rather being a 'wife' in a well settled family. There will not be love, where there is no 'scarcity', the run to attain the scarcity makes the life loveful.

Do not lend your daughter's hand to a 'KING' lend it to a 'SOLDIER' and ask her to make him a king.

Saturday, July 25, 2009

ನಿನ್ನ ಪ್ರೇಮದ ಪರಿಯ ನಾನರಿಯೆ ಕನಕಾಂಗಿ...

ನಿನ್ನ ಪ್ರೇಮದ ಪರಿಯ ನಾನರಿಯೆ ಕನಕಾಂಗಿ,
ನಿನ್ನೊಳಿದೆ ನನ್ನ ಮನಸು.

ಹುಣ್ಣಿಮೆಯ ರಾತ್ರಿಯಲಿ ಉಕ್ಕುವುದು ಕಡಲಾಗಿ,
ನಿನ್ನೊಲುಮೆ ನನ್ನ ಕಂಡು, ನಿನ್ನೊಳಿದೆ ನನ್ನ ಮನಸು.

ಸಾಗರನ ಹೃದಯದಲಿ ರತ್ನಪರ್ವತ ಮಾಲೆ
ಮಿಂಚಿನಲಿ ಮೀಯುವುದಂತೆ,
ತೀರದಲಿ ಬಳುಕುವಲೆ ಕಣ್ಣ ಚುಂಬಿಸಿ ಮತ್ತೆ ಸಾಗುವುದು ಕನಸಿನಂತೆ.
ನಿನ್ನೊಳಿದೆ ನನ್ನ ಮನಸು.

ಅಲೆ ಬಂದು ಕರೆಯುವುದು, ನಿನ್ನೊಲೆಯರಮನೆಗೆ,
ಒಳಗಡಲ ರತ್ನಪುರಿಗೆ
ಅಲೆಯಿಡುವ ಮುತ್ತಿನಲೆ ಕಾಣುವುದು ನಿನ್ನೊಲುಮೆ,
ಒಳಗುಡಿಯ ಮೂರ್ತಿಮಹಿಮೆ. ನಿನ್ನೊಳಿದೆ ನನ್ನ ಮನಸು.